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Spiritual Mentoring |
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Spiritual Direction/Mentoring/Companioning:
- is a relationship in which a trusted spiritual guide accompanies you on
an exploration of your relationship with the Holy.
- provides the opportunity to be more intentional about your spiritual life.
- allows you to focus, gives permission to question and grow, and provides
assurance of God's unfailing love.
- invites you to pay attention to what is happening inside yourself, and
to discern how that connects with your world.
- is primarily a relationship of support focussed on your experience and interpretation.
- may also provide guidance in using spiritual disciplines such as journaling,
meditation and prayer.
- holds the sacred space, freeing you to explore your personal experiences.
- facilitates communication and greater intimacy with the Holy.
- enables you to participate more fully in the sacred movement and purpose
of life.
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Spiritual Mentoring is ideally a long term process, not a question and
answer session. The mentor and the person receiving mentoring usually meet once a month
for about an hour, depending on what is happening in life.
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Mentoring is for:
- seekers newly aware of a curiosity or hunger for the Sacred.
- those far along a spiritual path separate from formal religious ties.
- life-long followers of a faith tradition who want to enter into deeper communion with Spirit.
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All seekers must be serious about pursuing and deepening intimacy with the Sacred and ready
to claim and assume responsibility for their own journeys with God. New seekers often wonder what their experiences mean and want to find ways
to grow in their faith. Those with more years of experience or in leadership roles often seek mentoring in critical times of growth and transition. Some of the new theological literature (Spong, Borg, O'Murchu) can challenge
deeply held belief systems and it may be helpful to have a mentor as you
sort out your beliefs. When the call of God is changing or someone is moving
into a deeper phase of service or ministry, questions abound. Faith may even be called into question. Although God is never absent in these times, sometimes it is difficult
to find the Sacred in the familiar way we are used to knowing it. A mentor
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Therapy Versus Spiritual Mentoring
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- Counselling and therapy focus on specific life issues to discover root
causes and facilitate insight and healing.
- Spiritual Mentoring focuses more on your present experience and relationship with God, and how that is directing your decisions in daily life.
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Obviously there are areas where mentoring and
counselling overlap. For example, the spiritual disciplines of healing and prayer may also address
difficulties in one’s life. Forgiveness and healing
often go hand in hand. However, spiritual mentoring is not a quick fix for psychological problems,
and when these are identified as a continuing source of difficulty a referral
to an appropriate professional will be suggested.
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The Spiritual Mentor:
- is open to God, practices times of solitude and silence in prayer, and receives regular spiritual mentoring from another.
- should maintain an attitude of openness to God for his or her own spiritual life as well as an openness to the Spirit of God in others.
- has the gifts and skills of discernment, a listening heart, a gentle and
patient spirit, a good working knowledge of the Sacred texts and a basic
understanding of psychology and counselling.
- has felt called by God to participate in this spiritual practice.
- has been called forth and sought by others seeking a closer relationship with the sacred.
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A mentor then builds on these basics by seeking appropriate ways to sharpen
and enhance his or her skills.
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Our Spiritual Mentors
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We have three mentors presently offering Spiritual Direction in Calgary: John Griffith, Norline Johnson and Betsy Young. Each has a
different style and gifts in companioning.
It is appropriate to talk with the mentor on the phone and have an
initial appointment to determine whether you are a good fit for each other.
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Fees for Mentoring are negotiated with your mentor
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